Admiral George P. (Poison) Death – R.I.P.

The Admiral passed away on the 1st of February 2010 around 5:32 P.M. MST. “He was a good fish”, said Brandon Jay Storer one of the close friends of the Admiral, “A fighter that one!” That evening Brandon and I decided to plan a funeral and burial for him. Those present were Brandon, His parents, and my self.

I built a casket for him out of a Diet Pomegranate 7 Up can, wire cutters, and my hands. I think it was pretty well constructed but it was my first casket construction project I have ever done. (click here for the video) (If any one would like a casket constructed for a fish or small lizard please contact Hupp Casket Construction.) ha ha So I drank the 7 Up which was pretty gross but I did it for the Admiral.

We had a dinner at the funeral of Spaghetti and meat balls, which was provided by Sister Storer. Then we had the viewing, and a few talks…basically everyone just said something random about the fish. (click here for the video) When I finished putting together the casket we showcased the entire thing in another video, slightly easier then taking a bunch of pictures of it. Oh and the money you see in his casket is a quarter and a penny. We buried him with that money because we think that might have been what killed him but the results from the autopsy (that never happened) haven’t come back yet.

After I finished the casket we did a fly by with a RC Helicopter Brandon had. ha ha Fairly exciting. We did the fly by because it was a Navy funeral and we didn’t have a gun…(21 gun salute.) The plane didn’t actually fly with Death attached to it, but we took pictures to make it look like it did. =) (click here to view the pictures) Following his fly by we closed the casket for good and dug a burial spot about 8 feet from his back porch in the corner of his mothers garden. ha ha We figured if the casket doesn’t protect him well enough at least the garden will get nutrients.

So a funeral write up is nothing unless you add in some of the stories of his life! So here are a few stores and some of the things that were said about George:

- One of the most memorable stories widely spread was this: “One morning I woke up in Logan and this fish was swimming around in his bowl with hair in his mouth and a dead mouse beside his bowl! This fish is hard core!” – C D Hupp (story originally fabricated by B J Storer)
- “Is that your fish?” – J L B Hupp
- “Yuck! There is a reason I don’t go fishing!” – K H Hupp
- “This is an incredible tribute.” – J Mays
“The funeral was put together by the best funeral planners/casket builders/polytechnic engineers/fighter pilots/fish care takers in the world…Brandon Jay Storer, and Christopher David Hupp. Plus this fish was more famous then flounder so it had to be done.” C D Hupp

January’s Utah Temple – Provo Temple

Provo Temple

On January 15, 2010 I went to the Provo Temple and did an endowment session for Philip Meyer, Born 1846 in Carthage, Jasper, Missouri. I live in Spanish Fork, and work at Thrive in Orem, UT so after work I drove to the Provo Temple to kick off my 13 Utah Temples of 2010. I went to the 5:00 session and there was a Russian lady who went through in the same session! I absolutely love Russian, and get incredibly excited when it is even mentioned. I would probably claim Russian as my second language, and Ukrainian as my second nationality. I didn’t receive the chance to speak with the lady but I did get to read the card she used when going through the temple. That is the first time I saw it written in Russian.

On the way to the temple I saw a young man walking dressed up and headed toward the temple, so I picked him up. He was going to take a name from beginning to finish all that day. From printing the name off to a card to sealing if he could. That was pretty cool. I have yet to go completely through a name all in one day. I have done most of it but never all the way through. So on one of my trips this year that has become one of my sub goals.

I haven’t really mapped out which temples I am going to each month, but I am excited to plan mini vacations around the Vernal, Monticello, and St. George Temples. Well I will keep you all posted on my goals and hopefully, my experiences will all be both memorable and great fun!

Goal for 2010 – Visit all 13 Utah Temples

So On my most recent trip to Logan, last weekend (The 8-10 of Jan) I did one of those self evaluation type things and decided to expand my goals. The one  that I would like to write about here is: (Drum roll)

I want to visit all 13 temples in Utah by the end of the year! (For those of you who aren’t as good at math that is one a month and one of the months I will have to visit two temples.) Here is the List of Utah Temples from North to South:

To kick off my goal I went to the Logan Temple to find out it was closed for cleaning like it always is at the beginning of the year. So I had to postpone the kick off. I will be getting to all 13 temples this year and for those that are further away, I will probably plan an entire weekend of activities in that area. I am pretty excited about it, and who knows next year might be all the temples in close proximity to Utah and keep expanding out until I have visited all the LDS Temples in the world. We shall see though, for now I will just start out with Utah. By Popular Demand…(My brother Josh demanded that I add it) I will be adding the Oakland, CA Temple to my list. So its now the 13 Utah temples and Oakland goal.

Here is my list of temples I have done work in (in chronological order):

  • St. Louis
  • Winter Quarters
  • Nauvoo
  • Madrid
  • Provo
  • Oakland
  • Salt Lake
  • Logan
  • Jordan River
  • Mount Timpanogos
  • Draper

The Kings Five Daughters

The Kings Five Daughters

Long, Long Ago Far Above the sea
Lay a kingdom not that much larger than our part of the valley
It was beautiful and strong with buildings of marble
And a king with five daughters was at the head of its rule
It flourished and thrived under peaceful bliss
Never graced the earth a more happy and humble people than this.

The king was older and ready to pass away
And must confer the kingdom to someone on an oncoming day.
He had no sons and his daughters were in their youth
So he searched the kingdom for a man of truth
All that were summoned denied the position
How could the king make such a proposition?
The kingdom must go from parent to child
For that is how the law and government was styled

The king was perplexed with the decision to be made
So he consulted the prophets and priestesses who in the kingdom had stayed
One of the priestesses was once in love
With the king who by his people was so well beloved
She had given her heart but all for naught
For the king had always for the love of his wife sought

So she placed a curse upon the land
Where every man woman and child would freeze where they stand
As crazy as this may seem
The king’s five daughters were because of a dream
Laying fast asleep in there bassinets
All else were frozen including their pets.

The girls for days weeped and weeped
For their kingdom and father upon whom the curse was reaped
For years they tried and tried to break the spell
But to no use the kingdom from others memories fell

The five were persistent in this task
And eventually found a prophet whom they could ask
How this horrible curse could be broken
To his maker he asked a sign or token
Oh how this spell could be lifted

The lord answered “Each of my daughters are very gifted
And from them I need their devotion and love
To be shown to their Father up above
Recognize your talents for they are not free
And use them wisely that is the key
Build others up don’t put them down
For this you all receive the kingdom and crown
But remember to do and keep these sayings
Or the kingdom will freeze and to you returns your pains.”

The prophet spoke to each in turn
There is a great lesson from this to be learned.
You are each examples every one
And five works you must complete before the setting of the sun.

So they set forth on their way
And passed a weary traveler at the dawn of day
Four passed on but one stopped to serve
Said the traveler of this help I do not deserve
She helped him up and gave him food
Which in turn softened her mood

They continued during the light of dawn
And passed a man whose life was far gone
He sat angry at the life he was given
One stooped down to talk being positively driven
She spoke kind words and showed him the good
For this trait she had always been misunderstood
The sisters moved on their burdens lighter
The act loosened the hearts of those that were tighter

With the sun being high at a stream they did stop
For a drink of cool water to their knees did they drop
Nearby they heard crying form two little children
They moved closer and one said with a grin
Why are you crying here all alone?
Tis a bright beautiful day, to you cheer may I loan

They spoke very softly of the separation from their parents
So the five walked with them to a nearby fence
Where their parents were napping under a tree
The children were happy and cheered with glee
The Sister smiled and hugged them both together
And her heart then felt as light as a feather.

The day hurried onward the sun started to fall
A few started murmuring this task is too tall
One being true to her god never doubting
Said to the others let us be faithful on this great outing
So they pressed onward with their spirits more faithful
We will succeed and to our god be grateful

They came to a bridge which was firm when last passed
But since their last journey ore many travelers amassed
The bridge would not hold them for weak it became
Then one spoke who was wise and beautiful just the same
She spoke of a plan to overcome this situation so bleak
A plan to cross this once lowly creek

She chopped down two cedars big and round
And had the five sisters push them across the ground
They fastened them tight to each bank
And due to fatigue from the river they drank
The sun was now setting and the sisters discouraged
But seeing the prophet top the bridge felt encouraged

They went to go speak to him atop the bridge
Your hearts are now soft not cold like a fridge
For the service you’ve rendered to each of my kin
Now each in your kingdom the women and men
Have had the curse lifted forever
For you and your kingdom have been unified together

Now in service you have learned to spend all of your time
And that is the end of this story and rhyme

– Christopher David Hupp

Note from the author: A few months ago in my ward in Spanish Fork (The weekend of Grandpa Hupp’s funeral) we did an auction to raise supplies for humanitarian aid kits. The way it was set up was people from the ward would donate talents and service etc for people to bid on. When a toothbrush, comb, toothpaste, etc was donated you would receive bishop bucks. Well I donated a dinner date to the female’s favorite restaurant, a Russian lesson, quotes for two weeks straight (which I am still working on =),  and a children’s story staring who ever bought it. Well five young ladies from my ward pitched in to win the children’s story so I wrote it. The five were Breanna Fawcett, Gwen Allen, Jessica Stones, Lindsay Paxton, and Ruth Moshier. I made them guess who they were in the story.

Life At The Moment

I thought about creating a collage of everything that I am doing at the moment but I decided not to because that is boring and doesn’t really say too much. SO here goes: I want to get freaking married already! =) ha ha. I got a raise at work, a performance bonus, taken out to lunch, and a hat to show that my company appreciates me. I know they do, and as I do with any company I work really hard to make sure I do a good job.

That said, it doesn’t change the fact that I really loved my life, schedule and what was happening in Logan. I was dating a beautiful young lady, going to school, and in a great ward. Its not that I don’t love my life here, its that I don’t love it as much. I work full time, and have a mediocre social life; that involves no serious relationship with someone of the opposite sex. I date now and for the most part the dates flop. I used to be a “professional” dater…minus the being paid for it part, which would mean I wasn’t professional just good at it. In all honesty I think it is because I dated Aubrey and my heart at least part of it is still with her no matter what I do; so when I go on dates I am not fully invested or fully the same as I once was.

Oh and my roommate told me the other day (yesterday) that I have a sign stamped across my forehead saying “Please set me up with your friend.” I had a chat with Josh yesterday about it, and my thoughts on the subject were I am pathetic and the only way I could get a date is via friends. He said, or it could mean they trust me and want me to date their friends. I’d never thought of it that way. Anyway its happened a lot and I don’t quite know what to think about it. I would like to crawl under a rock for about another year, but I know its not possible. Well I love you family Have a Merry Christmas!

- Chris Hupp

Shopko’s Black Friday – Review

So first the update: I am preparing to move into a house in Spanish Fork. I am looking to get enrolled into classes at UVU, and I gained 7-8 pounds at Thanksgiving, not a personal best but not bad.

Today was the first time I have ever celebrated Black Friday, and it was actually really fun. Tiffany, Dave, Alex, Pax, Jared, and myself planned on camping out at Shopko to be first in line for the “Holiday” haha.

Probably the worst holiday there is because its sole purpose is to trample down others to get the sale they were looking for…its sort of funny though watching the crazed people rush to save a little money on a few items.

So we set up a tent at about 11:30, and played Mad Gab for about an hour or so. We didn’t sleep at all even though that was what I was going to try and do. In all honesty I was pretty excited for the opportunity to experience BLACK FRIDAY. Depending upon where you live Black and Blue Friday might be a better name for it. (If you don’t understand why ask me later.)

My first Black Friday purchase was a 12 piece cookware set, which included: 1-qt., 2-qt., & 3-qt. Covered Sauce Pans, 3-qt. Steamer with Handles, 6-qt. Covered Dutch Oven, 8″ & 9.5″ Fry Pans and 3-qt. 9.5″ Saute Pan with Assist Handle, Steel Roasting Pan with Rack, 7″ Santoku Knife, and 6 Nylon Tools. Its regular retail price is: $140, and I bought mine for $20.

I was fairly satisfied with the experience, outside of the crazy…”focused” sleep deprived (in most cases) women who didn’t see anything but their prey. I tried as best I could to stay out of their way and was surprised I didn’t leave with bruised ankles from all the carts being rammed into me =). I would rate myself as a shopper today a level 3 Shopper (on a scale of 1-10), because I was fairly casual about picking up the things I was there to buy, I didn’t memorize the store before hand, and I walked semi-aimlessly around the store for a bit before I found what I was looking for. To give myself credit though I did have a shopping list (even though it was made by Beckee =), and I was first in line so that has to count for something.

Here are some pointers if you would like to be a serious shopper:

  • Know the Store
  • Organize/Memorize your list – Be Efficient don’t waste time
  • Dress for success…I mean a triathlon
  • Divide and Conquer – Bring Friends
  • Run
  • Practice and train for the event =)
  • Use a shopping Cart
  • Camp Out, Its fun!

Well if any one else is thinking about trying out Black Friday, I would say go for it! Just start out with smaller stores though, because there were a few people that went to the hospital due to being trampled on again this year. Crazy!

Chris Hupp – Black Friday Amateur

I Got My Blog Back!

Suspended

Suspended

So for some reason my account was suspended for a few weeks and I couldn’t contact any one from wordpress. I have my blog back and am extremely excited for it! Ha ha

Here is the update on my life to this point:

I am working at Thrive Monday through Friday, and am enjoying my self. I have started up an eBay Account and am working to become a power seller there. It seems pretty easy to do so I decided to make it my goal to become one. On top of that I am managing a blog about Landscape Architecture: LandscapeConnections.Blogspot.com, I am working on a Clickbank Affiliate site about Ideas For Landscaping, I am also working on another Dropship Site with Josh, that will be selling Body boards, and am working on the site that I have wanted to put up for years: Landscape Training (Landscapetraining.org), Only the first site is actually up with info you would be able to read up on but I am working on the others. Aside from that I am still trying to manage MojoSac.com.

To go along with those endeavors I am looking to move up to Orem, UT (Just a side note I pulled a Freudian Slip and typed in Logan at first). Right now I am leaning toward Winter Haven, because that is the only place that was recommended. The reviews on the place are really bad so I will check it out before I make any concrete decisions. I will be attended UVU next semester, hopefully taking Russian, English, and Math classes. We will see what else later.

My last letter from from Aubrey let me know she will be training a new sister, and the one before that she wrote how she wanted to just be friends for now…a long with a lot of other things. I was deflated pretty nicely after reading it. ha ha I probably needed it. It is always nice to receive a firm (rhetoric) smack in the face; it just reminds you of your insignificance and need for God… SO I have given in I think and will be writing still but moving on to dating because I am tired of getting lectured for not doing so.

I am still an FHE Co Chair with Cassie Lewis, and this Monday we are going to be doing Survivor Celestial. It should be a lot of fun! We are working on building up our committee to hold 8 people besides ourselves so that we can contact everyone in the ward every week, in hopes to boost attendance at church and help others become more converted to the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

Well I love you family, and will hopefully talk to you all later!

Chris

Developing Character

David O McKayDavid O. McKay, “Developing Character,” Ensign, Oct 2001, 22

The following are some classic statements on the development of Christlike character by our ninth President of the Church.

True Greatness

“The highest of all ideals are the teachings and particularly the life of Jesus of Nazareth, and that man is most truly great who is most Christlike. What you sincerely in your heart think of Christ will determine what you are, will largely determine what your acts will be. … By choosing him as our ideal, we create within ourselves a desire to be like him, to have fellowship with him” (in Conference Report, Apr. 1951, 93, 98).

“The true measure of a man is how he spends his time when he doesn’t have to do anything” (quoted by Robert L. Simpson, “Pollution of the Mind,” Ensign, Jan. 1973, 113).

“As a Man Thinketh”

“No principle of life was more constantly emphasized by the Great Teacher than the necessity of right thinking. To Him, the man was not what he appeared to be outwardly, nor what he professed to be by his words: what the man thought determined in all cases what the man was. No teacher emphasized more strongly than He the truth that ‘as a man thinketh in his heart, so is he’ [Prov. 23:7]. … Contentment, complacency, peace—all that makes life worth living—have their source in the mind of the individual. From the same source spring unrest, turbulence, misery—everything that leads to dissolution and death. … It is well for [every teacher and officer in the Church] to pause frequently and take stock of himself to ascertain ‘what he is thinking about when he doesn’t have to think,’ for ‘what he thinketh in his heart, so is he’ ” (“ ‘As a Man Thinketh … ,’ ” Instructor, Sept. 1958, 257–58).

“What a man continually thinks about determines his actions in times of opportunity and stress. A man’s reaction to his appetites and impulses when they are aroused gives the measure of that man’s character. In these reactions are revealed the man’s power to govern or his forced servility to yield” (in Conference Report, Oct. 1951, 8).

We Radiate What We Are

“There is another responsibility correlated and even coexistent with … agency, which is too infrequently emphasized, and that is the effect not only of a person’s actions, but also of his thoughts. Man radiates what he is, and that radiation affects to a greater or less[er] degree every person who comes within that radiation” (“Free Agency … The Gift Divine,” Improvement Era, Feb. 1962, 87).

“Sickness may waste the body, but the true life is the spirit within, that which thinks and feels and loves and suffers and wills and chooses, aspires, and achieves. The purpose in life is to beautify, ornament, develop that something within. To develop a more radiant and lovely character is the true purpose in life” (Gospel Ideals [1954], 357).

The Approval of Conscience

“Thoughts mold your features. Thoughts lift your soul heavenward or drag you toward hell. … As nothing reveals character like the company we like and keep, so nothing foretells futurity like the thoughts over which we brood. … To have the approval of your conscience when you are alone with your thoughts is like being in the company of true and loving friends. To merit your own self-respect gives strength to character. Conscience is the link that binds your soul to the spirit of God” (“Those Sculptors Called Thoughts and Ideals,” Improvement Era, July 1960, 495).

A Clear Conscience

“It is glorious when you can lie down at night with a clear conscience, knowing you have done your best not to offend anyone and have injured no man. You have tried to cleanse your heart of all unrighteousness, and if you put forth precious effort, you can sense as you pray to God to keep you that night that he accepts your effort. You have a sense that you are God’s child, not a mere cog of the state, but a person whose soul God wants to save. You have the strength, the sense of resistance to evil. … You also have the realization that you have made the world better for having been in it” (Gospel Ideals, 502).

The Development of a Grand Character

“Day by day, hour by hour, man builds the character that will determine his place and standing among his associates throughout the ages. … More important than riches, more enduring than fame, more precious than happiness is the possession of a noble character. Truly it has been said that the grand aim of man’s creation is the development of a grand character, and grand character is by its very nature the product of a probationary discipline” (“Man’s Soul Is As Endless As Time,” Instructor, Jan. 1960, 1–2).

Christlike Character

“True happiness is found in living the Christ’s life—on Monday as well as on Sunday. He who is virtuous only at intervals proves that his pretended virtue is but a sham. Such a person lacks sincerity, the foundation of true character, without which happiness is impossible” (Gospel Ideals, 502).

“What is the crowning glory of man in this earth so far as his individual achievement is concerned? It is character—character developed through obedience to the laws of life as revealed through the Gospel of Jesus Christ, who came that we might have life and have it more abundantly. Man’s chief concern in life should not be the acquiring of gold nor fame nor material possessions. It should not be the development of physical prowess nor of intellectual strength, but his aim, the highest in life, should be the development of a Christlike character” (“Obedience Develops Character,” Instructor, Aug. 1965, 301; emphasis in original).

[illustration] Detail from The Good Samaritan, by Walter Rane, courtesy of Museum of Church History and Art

The Root of Christian Doctrine

The Root of Christian Doctrine by Thomas B. Griffith

From a Brigham Young University devotional address given on March 14, 2006.

President Gordon B. Hinckley has taught that we must do better at getting the gospel down into our own hearts and the hearts of those we love and serve. I believe that one way to meet President Hinckley’s challenge is to focus on the Atonement of Jesus Christ.

Years ago President Boyd K. Packer, Acting President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, spoke of the mercy offered by the Mediator Jesus Christ: “This is the very root of Christian doctrine. You may know much about the gospel as it branches out from there, but if you only know the branches and those branches do not touch that root, if they have been cut free from that truth, there will be no life nor substance nor redemption in them.”

I offer three suggestions for how we can connect ourselves to that root and, in the process, get the gospel down into our hearts and the hearts of those we serve.

Partake of the Emblems of His Suffering

In the temple recommend interview, we are asked, “Do you have a testimony of the Atonement of Christ and of His role as Savior and Redeemer?” In my experience as a bishop and a stake president, I can happily report that I have never had anyone answer that question other than yes. Yet I have long had a concern that we don’t fully appreciate that question. I think it significant that of the many roles of Christ, we are asked only about His roles as Savior and Redeemer. There must be something about these roles that is particularly important to the temple—a place where He binds us to Himself through covenants.

As a stake president, I worried whether the members of the stake had “a testimony of the Atonement of Christ and of His role as Savior and Redeemer.” I had the sense that most of them loved Christ—no small thing—but I worried that not enough of them knew Him as their Savior (One who had saved them) or their Redeemer (One who had bought them). While thinking about this one day, I was reading 3 Nephi 11, and I noticed some things I never had before.

The people we read about in that chapter are the righteous remnant, those who had heeded the warnings of the prophets. They were prepared to meet the Lord. When the resurrected Lord appeared to them, He “stretched forth his hand,” showing His wound—the symbol and evidence of His sacrifice. Then He “spake unto the people, saying: Behold, I am Jesus Christ, whom the prophets testified shall come into the world” (3 Nephi 11:9–10).

Next He said, “I am the light and the life of the world; and I have drunk out of that bitter cup which the Father hath given me, and have glorified the Father in taking upon me the sins of the world, in the which I have suffered the will of the Father in all things from the beginning” (3 Nephi 11:11).

That was His message. He is the Anointed One, of whom the prophets had testified. He is the Creator. He suffered for us.

Notice the people’s response: “When Jesus had spoken these words the whole multitude fell to the earth; for they remembered that it had been prophesied among them that Christ should show himself unto them” (3 Nephi 11:12).

What followed is, to me, the most sacred part of this experience. Jesus commanded them to come forward one by one and do something difficult: “Arise and come forth unto me, that ye may thrust your hands into my side, and also that ye may feel the prints of the nails in my hands and in my feet, that ye may know that I am the God of Israel, and the God of the whole earth, and have been slain for the sins of the world” (3 Nephi 11:14).

These people had physical contact with these emblems of His suffering: “The multitude went forth, and thrust their hands into his side, and did feel the prints of the nails in his hands and in his feet; and this they did do, going forth one by one until they had all gone forth” (3 Nephi 11:15)—all 2,500 of them.

Note what happened next:

“And when they had all gone forth and had witnessed for themselves, they did cry out with one accord, saying:

“Hosanna! Blessed be the name of the Most High God! And they did fall down at the feet of Jesus, and did worship him” (3 Nephi 11:16–17).

The second time these people fell at Jesus’s feet, they “did worship him.” The first time, they may have fallen to the ground for any number of reasons: fear, awe, peer pressure. But the second time they fell to worship Him. Why the different reaction? The second time they cried out in unison, “Hosanna!” which means “Save us now!” Why were these people crying out to Christ for salvation now?

Let me suggest a possible answer. Although they had been obedient, perhaps they had not yet come to know Him as their Savior because they had not yet felt the need to be saved. They had led lives filled with good works. They knew Jesus as God and as Exemplar. But maybe they didn’t yet know Him as Savior. Their prayer wasn’t, “We thank Thee for having saved us in the past and reminding us of that by Thy presence today.” No, the prayer was a current plea: “Hosanna!” or “Save us now!” That suggests to me that they were coming to know Him as Savior.

What had turned them from good, obedient people to good, obedient people who now knew Jesus Christ as Savior? What had caused them to fall down at His feet to worship Him? It was physical contact with the emblems of His suffering.

That was what the members of our stake needed so they could come to know Christ as their Savior and Redeemer: physical contact with the emblems of His suffering. But how do we make that happen? Then it occurred to me: we have that experience every Sunday when we partake of the sacrament. We eat the broken bread, a token of His slain body. We drink the water, a symbol of His spilt blood. These are striking symbols intended to evoke in us a deep sense of gratitude and reverence.

I believe that as we participate in the sacrament of the Lord’s Supper, we will cry out to Christ in our hearts, “Save us now!” and we will feel to fall down to worship Him.

Ponder His Sacrifice

To get the gospel down into our hearts and the hearts of those we serve, we must also come to know in detail and with insight and feeling the events that make up the Atonement of Jesus Christ. In Doctrine and Covenants 19, the Lord gives a first-person, detailed account of the suffering He endured:

“For behold, I, God, have suffered these things for all, that they might not suffer if they would repent; …

“Which suffering caused myself, even God, the greatest of all, to tremble because of pain, and to bleed at every pore, and to suffer both body and spirit—and would that I might not drink the bitter cup, and shrink” (vv. 16, 18).

What kind of a God do we worship? A God who wants us to know that His love for us is infinite and eternal. A God who wants us to know that His love for us gave Him the strength to suffer for us. Knowing this ought to be enough to move us to submit our lives to Him in obedience and gratitude.

Some time ago I overheard a spirited discussion between two people about a work of art that contained a realistic portrayal of Christ’s suffering. One of them objected to the work and said, “I don’t want to have to think about how much Christ has suffered.” I thought that was an odd thing to say because I don’t believe that any of us has the license to avoid thinking about what He suffered, even though we can’t fully understand how much He suffered.

Before Moroni closed his account in the Book of Mormon with an exhortation to “come unto Christ” (Moroni 10:30, 32), he shared with us a personal letter from his father. It must have had a great impact on him, and I suppose he hoped it would have a great impact on us: “My son, be faithful in Christ; and may not the things which I have written grieve thee, to weigh thee down unto death; but may Christ lift thee up, and may his sufferings and death, and the showing his body unto our fathers, and his mercy and long-suffering, and the hope of his glory and of eternal life, rest in your mind forever” (Moroni 9:25).

Among the things that are to rest in our minds forever are the “sufferings and death” of Christ. We should not avoid thinking about the price He paid to win our souls. Our hymns remind us of this truth:

I think of his hands pierced and bleeding to pay the debt!
Such mercy, such love, and devotion can I forget?

Let me not forget, O Savior,
Thou didst bleed and die for me.

Think of me, thou ransomed one;
Think what I for thee have done.
With my blood that dripped like rain,
Sweat in agony of pain,
With my body on the tree
I have ransomed even thee.

In a recent sacrament meeting, I followed along as the speaker read a familiar passage of scripture: “Remember the worth of souls is great in the sight of God” (D&C 18:10). Then my mind seized hold on an idea in the next verse that I had never noticed before. To prove the great worth of our souls, the Lord told us, “For, behold, the Lord your Redeemer suffered death in the flesh; wherefore he suffered the pain of all men, that all men might repent and come unto him” (D&C 18:11; emphasis added).

His suffering proves His love, but it does more. It is the means He uses to get us to “repent and come unto him.” When we come to have some sense of what He has done for us—and, in particular, what He has suffered for us—our natural reaction as children of God is to want to show our gratitude and love by obeying Him. This verse is, in my opinion, the most succinct and profound description—from the Lord Himself—of how to get the gospel into our hearts.

The best way to persuade people to repent and come unto Christ is to get them to think about what He has done for us and especially about what He has suffered for us. That is how the Lord does it.

Remember Him

Several years ago I heard Elder Gerald N. Lund of the Seventy describe a magazine article about rock climbing. The article discussed belaying—the fail-safe system that protects climbers. One climber gets into a safe position, fastens the rope in a fixed position, then calls to his or her companion, “You’re on belay”—meaning “I’ve got you.” The director of a climbing school, Alan Czenkusch, described his experience with belaying to the author of the article:

“Belaying has brought Czenkusch his best and worst moments in climbing. Czenkusch once fell from a high precipice, yanking out three mechanical supports and pulling his belayer off a ledge. He was stopped, upside down, 10 feet [3 m] from the ground when his spread-eagled belayer arrested the fall with the strength of his outstretched arms.

“ ‘Don saved my life,’ says Czenkusch. ‘How do you respond to a guy like that? Give him a used climbing rope for a Christmas present? No, you remember him. You always remember him.’ ”

President Gordon B. Hinckley told us:

“No member of this Church must ever forget the terrible price paid by our Redeemer, who gave His life that all men might live—the agony of Gethsemane, the bitter mockery of His trial, the vicious crown of thorns tearing at His flesh, the blood cry of the mob before Pilate, the lonely burden of His heavy walk along the way to Calvary, the terrifying pain as great nails pierced His hands and feet. …

“We cannot forget that. We must never forget it, for here our Savior, our Redeemer, the Son of God, gave Himself, a vicarious sacrifice for each of us.”

May we always remember Him and the price He paid to win our souls.

To Remember Him Always

“It is the wounded Christ who is the captain of our soul—he who yet bears the scars of sacrifice, the lesions of love and humility and forgiveness.

“Those wounds are what he invites young and old, then and now, to step forward and see and feel (see 3 Ne. 11:15; 3 Ne. 18:25). Then we remember with Isaiah that it was for each of us that our Master was ‘despised and rejected … ; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief’ (Isa. 53:3). All this we could remember when we are invited by a kneeling young priest to remember Christ always.”

Elder Jeffrey R. Holland of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “This Do in Remembrance of Me,” Ensign, Nov. 1995, 69.

What Matters Most

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints – What Matters Most

“I believe that among the greatest lessons we are to learn in this short sojourn upon the earth are lessons that help us distinguish between what is important and what is not. And what is most important almost always involves the people around us. Often we assume that they must know how much we love them. But we should never assume; we should let them know. Wrote William Shakespeare, “They do not love that do not show their love.” Despite the changes which come into our lives, may we fill our days—as much as we can—with those things which matter most. May we cherish those we hold dear and express our love to them in word and in deed. Send that note to the friend you’ve been neglecting; give your child a hug; give your parents a hug; say “I love you” more; always express your thanks. Never let a problem to be solved become more important than a person to be loved.”   -   From President Thomas S. Monson’s talk entitled: “Finding Joy in the Journey

Watch and share a new Mormon Messages video, “What Matters Most,” in which President Thomas S. Monson counsels us to spend time with, cherish, and express love to the people we hold dear.

(William Shakespear quote comes from “The Two Gentlemen of Verona“)